Women…. audaciously stand up before your mirror and take a good look at yourself! Think of all your best attributes, talents and traits. You are beautiful - do you realize that? You are WORTHY! Always remember that God doesn't turn out inferior products! We should let our lights shine and not be afraid to lift up our heads and BE SOMEBODY. Be a queen. Women are wonderful! The majority of us cares deeply about the world and have really compassionate hearts. We are the nurturers; we are the ones who are soft and caring.
Always know that you deserve the very best that life has to offer. And that includes the BEST MAN. Your life should not be about settling for second, third or forth best in relationships. Picking a good man who will one day be your partner for LIFE and the father to your future children - is not like some blurry, half-hearted deal! You want a union of strength and happiness with a man.
If you are used to settling for second, third or fourth best - you must change your attitudes and perspective. As for me, I would truly rather spend my life ALONE than be stuck with any less. If you are stuck right now with a bad choice.... ‘UN-PICK’ him! Access what you REALLY want and need from a partner and make it the very best option possible. It's highly advisable to have pre-meditated picture of the kind of man you want! Get a notebook and write down all the desirable qualities you would want in your dream partner. (Of course your dream guy will never be perfect but, still - review that list often!) This will help manifest HIM into reality.
You should be attracting and dating numerous men. After getting to know them and testing their value, you should have the discernment to pick the one who has the most to offer you. Be very CHOOSY because your future children's lives and your entire future literally depend on it!
Melina Dean is an aspring life coach and image consultant. She has written a guide for women 'How To Look Like A Hollywood Goddess!'.